Strictly speaking, entering the workplace is the only way to really enter the society, not only to deal with work tasks, but also to deal with all kinds of interpersonal relationships.
What exactly is considered a workaholic? There is no universally accepted medical definition. But psychologists have tried to distinguish workaholics from those who simply do their jobs.
Kazuo Inamori said, "A person's attitude toward work determines the direction of his life."
At work, when we face promotion and salary increase, we might as well give up the me-centered thinking: "Why not me", but spend more thinking on the people or things around us: "Why him?"