When Adults Go to Work, It's All About "Memory."

"The suffering of work today has long since ceased to be physical, but we are spiritually pale."

In the workplace, everyone experiences moments of breakdown and encounters tricky dilemmas.

The worries and pressures of work often leave us physically and mentally exhausted and caught in the midst of endless mental exertion.

People are like computers, they have to have a big memory to hold more things in order to navigate through life.

Adults go to work, will suffer a lot of misunderstanding, there will be a variety of grievances and confusion.

May wish to upgrade their "memory", constantly broaden the mental capacity, so you can comfortably deal with all the troubles in the work.

1,Increase emotional memory

Mario, a financial writer, once put forward the concept of "emotional capacity".

He pointed out that everyone's emotions have a certain capacity, and once it is full, it will explode and destroy you.

Only by constantly improving your emotional memory can you prevent bad emotions from overflowing and causing you harm.

At work, everyone has emotional outbursts:

Leader's harsh criticism, customer's difficulties, colleague's misunderstanding, will make us fall into collapse.

Only by making your heart bigger and bigger, and fitting in these bad emotions, will you not be overwhelmed by negative energy.

A person can hold down the joy and anger, naturally can lose the power.

In the face of all the pressure, aggression and dissatisfaction at work, please maintain restraint and learn to accept.

Continuously increase your emotional memory, reduce unnecessary consumption, in order to focus on problem solving, so that you can go farther in the workplace.

2,Upgrade your cognitive memory

Look at a thought-provoking picture.

A man is locked in an iron cage, and he stretches the branch in his hand forward with all his might, trying to hook the bread in front of him.

However, he is oblivious to the key next to him that can open the cage.

There are also many such people at work who focus on temporary benefits and fail to see the long-term development, and as a result, limit their growth.

Cognitive deficiencies in the eyes of the people, only some meaningless things, desperately seeking, but no change in their own destiny of the slightest.

In the adult world, expanding your cognitive memory and enhancing your horizons is opening up more possibilities for your life.

"The masters are not stronger than us, higher than us in IQ, better than us in determination. It's simply because they think deeper and see more than we do, and they see the bigger system."

The lower the cognition, the more short-sighted people are, and they can only be in their own world, drawing a blank.

Only by breaking through the boundaries of thinking and upgrading the cognitive memory can we break the shackles that confine us and stand at a higher level to see the problem.

As the saying goes, choice determines destiny, cognition determines choice.

Learn to enhance inwardly, outwardly compatible, continue to empower the brain, you can continue to realize the leap in the work.

3,Widen the memory of pattern

Kazuo Inamori once described his "philosophy of a pot of water":

In a person's life, there will always be a time when there is a "lack of water".

When others need help, you hand over "a pot of water" to give them a certain amount of help;

When you are in trouble, they will do everything they can to repay you.

He concluded:

Altruism in life can enhance one's sense of achievement and happiness, and ultimately the return will come back to oneself, which is also beneficial to oneself.

Whether in life or work, dealing with people, it is good to be less calculating and more altruistic.

When your pattern improves, every bit of what you give to others will eventually come back to you.

If you try your best to give to others, you will get more; the ultimate altruism is the best self-interest.

Often, instead of blocking the road in selfishness, it is better to broaden your pattern memory.

Learn to think of others when things go wrong, and lend a helping hand to others.

Please believe that your goodwill, will eventually benefit themselves, in the process of fulfillment of others, will also continue to achieve your career.

A reporter once asked Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, "What is the secret of your success?

Zuckerberg answered with a metaphor:

Life is like a hard disk, the bigger the hard disk, the more it can hold.

Only by pouring your efforts into enhancing its space and capacity can you do more and reap more results in the same amount of time.

In the days to come, learn to expand your "memory", accept emotions, change your mindset, and break down perceptions.

Continuously cultivate the pattern, reshape yourself, so that you can continue to add value and become more and more powerful.