Why do strong women often suffer from mania?

The strong woman in our eyes has a busy and full life, but she always feels that there is something missing. She lacks the real care of people around her. For example, her husband thinks she is enough to be alone and won't give her any advice. She often said that there were two mountains in our house, and the words were still excited, and there was only a moment of loss, but it was immediately covered by the high octave voice. How good! Are the two mountains more stable? She is not asking questions, but persuading herself. Women who suffer from mania often have extremely strong personalities, so strong women are very likely to suffer from mania.

In fact, she knows that it is human nature to satisfy the psychology of being loved. Especially for women, she needs a man to rely on, and she is willing to make water, but somehow, it becomes hard, and gradually becomes a habit, creating a wonderful world for herself, just like a dancer wearing red dancing shoes, sweating profusely, but unable to stop until she spins to death. The more you can't get care, the more you will pretend that you don't need care; The more camouflage, people really think that this is a woman who doesn't need worry and warmth.

However, they unconsciously chose an abnormal way. They have been appreciated and praised all the time. Subconsciously, they are afraid that once they are not wonderful and stop, people will no longer pay attention to them, and they will be lost, empty, and then enlarge their lack. In fact, this is a kind of vanity, evasion, and lack of courage. They are often influenced by other people's reputation of "excellence" and "extraordinary ability". It is the neglected black hole in the heart and the confused praise of others that makes it difficult for such a woman to stop. Like an excited animal, more like a dry rotating machine, and a gear without oil, it roars violently and finally breaks.

If you feel that your heart is always unstable, and if you feel that the deer in your heart seems to be involuntary, don't believe that this is an extremely good performance of your passion and strength. Please first ask yourself why? Try to adjust the law of life, adjust the room with grass green and sky blue, reduce the number of parties, and spend some time alone in the soothing music. Try to calm down your heart like the wind blowing grass.

If you really want to express, speak and talk, please refrain and pretend to be mute for a day, what is that feeling? Do you feel covered by something? What is it? Ask yourself, such association and experience will gradually bring you closer to the bottom of your heart and know your heart, instead of rushing to escape from your heart with body movements, so that you can enter a benign process of psychological adjustment and play a role in treating mania.