You want to change your job after 3 years of hard work without a raise? Want to leave and feel the cost is high? Do you want to change jobs if it is inconsistent with the boss's values?
PUA refers to a type of behavior that involves manipulation, deception and control of others, which has a negative impact on the work environment and relationships.
Want to make good relations with the leadership, that must be to get the leadership of the appreciation, only the leadership to look up to, recognize you, trust you, and then after that there are more links.